Men need to feel successful, so-much-so that, to a man, failure is death. For them, if they fail,
they no longer feel like men. It's why most men commit suicide more often than women.
Kara Oh – American author
A friend of mine was telling me how an ex-girlfriend constantly criticised him and made fun of
his work. She was constantly exasperated with him and often called him stupid or an idiot,
This annoyed him because he knows he is very intelligent. Being a happy-go-lucky kind of
guy he stuck it out for longer than some men might, but one day even he snapped. She called
and he didn’t pick up. As he listened to her voice on the answering machine he resolved not to
let this woman make his life miserable any more.
She had either forgotten why she was attracted to him or she had seen him as a lump of clay
she could mould to her design and when he didn’t prove to be quite so malleable, she got
angry and blamed him. Stop having designs on men and start admiring them as ready made
works of art. No one would dream of altering a Picasso or a van Gogh so why would you want
to alter your man? Did you choose him for who he is or who you wanted him to be?
What’s special about your man?
Time for a little introspection. If you truly feel good about your man, then answering these
questions will be easy. If you find them challenging, read on.
1.What attracted you to this man in the first place?
2.What does he do well?
3.If he loves his work or has a passion other than you [hopefully he does!!!] what do you
know about it?
4.What’s great about him?
When Nicky first met Mark she came up with 72 great things about him from ‘doesn’t wear a
watch’ to ‘amazing forearms’. AND most important of all, she’s told him what she likes and
why!
If you can’t come up with some answers or you start focusing on his faults… you either need
to work on yourself and maybe the way you and he relate or get rid of him!
If you found lots of answers – start telling him as and when it’s appropriate.
Men are human beings first and foremost and like most humans they appreciate re-assurance,
compliments, admiration and congratulations from any source but in particular from the woman
they are choosing to spend time with. The more you do this and genuinely mean it, the more
they’ll look forward to spending time with you.
If you don’t give it to them, they’ll eventually look for it elsewhere and that elsewhere could be
in someone else’s bed! And now for a short commercial break!
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P.S. - Peta Heskell is author of the book Flirt Coach published in the USA.
You can access her website at:www.flirtcoach.com
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