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Probably the biggest mistake that men make in understanding single women is underestimating just how important sex is to single women. It is easy to see, however, how men would fail to recognize sex as being a major motivation to single women.
It has always been socially acceptable for men to desire sex, and even to be open to others about their desires. It has been frowned upon for years, however, for single women to discuss or admit to sexual desires. A single woman who lusted for sex was considered a whore or a slut. Single women were even afraid to admit to themselves that they had desires because of feelings of guilt that society heaped upon them.
Thus the single female sexual desire is not something that has been talked about openly, and for this reason men have been lulled into thinking that since it is not talked about much, it must not be a very strong motive in single women.
The fact of the matter is that female sexual desire does exist. And, it exists in single women every bit as strongly as it exists in men. We will go so far as to say that the real, unspoken motive being the women's movement was sexual freedom. Not freedom to have sex necessarily, but that it is okay for women to admit that they enjoy it, and want it, and have it with more than one man if they want. The women's movement was saying, "Hey, we enjoy sex just as much as men do, and that shouldn't be a sin. We are tired of the double standard."
And that is what has happened. Single women now realize that it's okay to enjoy sex and they are out looking for it. Sex is something that single women can enjoy too - not just a dutiful obligation to a male dominated society.
To be continued...
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Single women are far more discriminating than men are concerning sex. They desire sex as much as men do, but whereas men will often have sex with anyone, single women are looking for someone special. They are passing up sex with just anyone to wait for someone to come along who they deem to be that special guy. Single women today not only want sex, they want good sex. And as far as single women are concerned, whether or not the sex they have is good is the responsibility of the man. We, as men, are the first ones to point out that this fact is unfair, but also the first to point out that it is a reality that we all have to live with.
The next time you are trying to figure out a single woman's actions, just suppose that she is as motivated and swayed in her behavior by sexual desire as you are. Time and again, men ask us, "Why did she go for him? He doesn't have nearly as much going for him as I do." The answer is simple: She was more sexually attracted to him than you. And that is it in a nutshell. Single women are choosing men just like men choose women - by sexual attraction. If a woman is interested in you it is your sex appeal that got your foot in the door, and now good sex will help keep you there.
Sex is a very powerful aspect of relationships. This is not to say sex is the total element of a relationship, but we are saying that it plays a larger role than people like to admit. Single women, just like men, will want to meet someone or start a relationship with someone if they find that person sexually attractive. And, as the relationship continues, good sex is often the strongest glue that holds the two people together.
If it were possible to take an objective survey, we wouldn't be surprised if the results concluded that many break-ups today stem from sexual dissatisfaction or sexual boredom, and that partners leave the relationship because they are looking for something better. More specifically, exciting sexual experiences. Single women are leaving relationships because of this more so today than ever before.
And what does all of this mean? What is the point of this all boiled down to one sentence? If you want to be successful with single women, you'd better know how to keep her sexually satisfied.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
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