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Natural radar for women
He'll be attracted by women all the time. Be glad that he's got this radar for attractive women-he's obviously a red-blooded heterosexual male! Smile and feel good when you see your man
admiring a girl and if she's attractive, be honest and agree either to yourself or tell him. If you
start to think of her as competition, he'll unconsciously sense it from your voice tone and your
minute body language signals.
Feel good that you are with someone that other people desire - he chose you.
Let him look and enjoy it. It's natural. If he is having the time of his life with you, if you are
being yourself with him and loving it and if you allow him to be who he is, he probably won't
stray. And if he does, that’s another story…and there are ways of handling that too. Above
all be true to what makes you feel good and be flexible within those limits.
And haven't you ever enjoyed being flirted with by some very charming man. I like it if 'my'
man is chased by women, it just confirms what I already know. Of course if you act this way,
don't be surprised if he is more laid back about your encounters. And don't kid yourself that
a jealous man is great because it reaffirms how much he cares. It doesn't. It re-affirms how
insecure he is and that's all!!
Relationships aren't prisons or schools full of rules about what you can't do. Relationships
should be playpens that each person enters into just to have a great time with the other
person.
The turn-off scowl
If some woman is constantly flirting with your boyfriend, don’t go all whiney and angry. That's
guaranteed to make you look highly undesirable. Men hate that! They may have different
tolerance levels for it, but underneath a man wants a woman who brings peace to his life
together with excitement, passion and understanding.
When you scowl inside or out even if you have the 'prettiest' face - you will look ugly. And
forget about doing the big bitch put down on her. He will watch you and shudder as he
imagines you doing it to him someday.
Instead, summon up what makes you feel good about yourself, what you love about him and
like this flirt with him . It’s your right to flirt with your boyfriend, wildly and wantonly! You
can whisper in his ear and be more intimate physically with him than she will probably dare to.
I’m assuming here that you have had sex with this man. [If you haven’t decide quickly… he
may wait but while he’s waiting he’ll be roving and much, much more open. And if you do
decide to, do it only because you really WANT him, not because you want him to like you or
afraid of losing him..
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be continued as below...
Purr and moan
You have shared exciting, intimate moments. You have the power to activate his sexual driver.
Use it! Perhaps a word will trigger off his memories, or maybe a touch. Whatever it is use it. Knowing how much YOU want him, coupled with the memories you get him to focus on, will
turn him back on to you!
You have some choices. You can also choose to ignore what is going on because you know
that you and he are really hot right now. Tell yourself the truth. You can hang out and flirt
with people you want to flirt with and know that you’re going home with your man. If he goes
off with someone else when he’s out with you you should be glad you got rid of him so
quickly! That’s just really bad manners. But if it’s just a dalliance, is it really all that
threatening?
Bitch
and Moan and more...
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P.S. - Peta Heskell is author of the book Flirt Coach published in the USA by Harper Collins/Thorsons in June 01. She runs the UK Flirting Academy, and coaches
clients privately. She is a frequent media guest in the UK and has run workshops in Florida and Amsterdam, Netherlands.
You can access her website at:www.flirtcoach.com
Following is a list of readings that we recommend for you:
- If you want your lover to be passionately attracted to you, wanting
you, and craving your touch – you've come to the right place
– That is "Instant Sexy Letters"… I highly recommend it.
See what you think... "Instant Sexy
Letters"
- Are you always afraid you'd do something wrong, or that the
guy wouldn't like it? NOT ANY MORE! If you can't give yourself the
title of Blow-Job Queen after reading this, you'd better put a
mirror in front of your face and see if it fogs up. That is "A to
Z Guide to the Perfect Blow Job"… I highly recommend it. See
what you think... "A to Z Guide to
the Perfect Blow Job"
- With the divorce rate over 55% in the United States today
(and often higher in other countries), it is important to know
your partner as intimately as possible before taking the
plunge!" That is "Compatibility Test"… I highly
recommend it. See what you
think... "Compatibility Test"
- To help you have the most enriching and rewarding
relationship possible, then seriously consider investing in at
least a small amount of study on the subject. That is
"Michael Webb’s
Relationship Collection"… I highly recommend it. See
what you think... "Michael Webb’s
Relationship Collection"
- ??LOVER QUIZ??
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