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How to seduce women:
Cuing
refers to the fact that many of our biological drives require an
environmental cue or signal to make us aware of them. For instance, if you
are busy or distracted you may not notice you're hungry until you smell
some pizza. Sexual arousal works in a similar way for women. Sex cues make
them aware of their sexual needs.
I was talking to a woman friend of mine over lunch. She told me that she
had met a "nice guy" at this party one night but she wasn't very
impressed by him or his looks. He invited her to have a drink his
apartment and since the party was boring anyway she agreed to go.
To her surprise, his apartment was a charming place. The lights were low
and not bright like in most apartments. Classical music was playing. And
there was a large fireplace casting all kinds of soft, interesting shadows
on the walls. She told me that suddenly she began to find this otherwise
unattractive man more and more enticing.
I laughed at her story because I knew she was primarily responding to the
sex cues in the apartment.
Yet most guys don't take advantage of purposely setting up sex cues. Their
apartments are boring, stark, drab, or messy - hardly what would set a
woman in the right mood for some hot sex.
Sex Cue: Colored Lighting
Good lighting can be just as effective as any mood-altering drug. With the
right light, even the dumpiest room can be a place that encourages
lovemaking.
Women don't like bright lights. Instead, you want to have low, indirect,
and diffuse illumination that creates a provocative effect. Pink light
bulbs are easy on the eyes and flattering on the skin. Red, orange, and
yellow lights all resemble firelight. Using an "up" light from
the floor with colored bulbs can create a dramatic effect.
Women get turned on in the presence of flickering firelight as well.
Everyone looks more sexy and heroic in the glow of firelight. This doesn't
mean you need to install a fireplace in your room. Just have some candles
ready to be lit.
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Sex Cue: Music
The right music can subliminally put a woman in the mood for sex. It's
been shown that slow, "heartbeat" music makes our heart rate
slow, muscles relax, posture become looser, and skin to conduct more heat.
Music also helps us experience trance-like states of altered consciousness
and let go of the normal, everyday distracting thoughts in her head.
Even if her response is not obviously apparent, she'll respond to music in
subtle ways without conscious thought. Scientific studies show that people
return to the same store more often when music that they like is playing
in the background, even if they're not fully conscious of it. Scientific
studies also suggest that music listening seems to encourage the release
of endorphins that help to block out feelings of pain and stress.
So get yourself a stereo that can play CDs and place it in your bedroom.
You'll want to get a multi-disk player that can handle three discs or
more. And if you can create your own custom, MP3 file CDs on your
computer, you'll want a stereo system that also plays MP3 CDs.
A budget stereo system for under $200 should get you a three-disc CD
changer, a cassette player, and halfway decent speakers. This is fine for
a small bedroom and you can find one at stores like Target, K-Mart,
Circuit City, and Wal-Mart. Unfortunately, most manufacturers have made
most of the inexpensive systems very bright and flashy, so if you want a
more elegant, sophisticated look, you may end up paying more for a higher
end model.
For an enhanced playing experience, and if you have the money to spare,
you might want to get a package that includes a subwoofer and four
speakers for true 5.1 Dolby Digital surround sound playback. True surround
sound creates an enveloping sound field that comes from all directions for
an almost surreal, immersing experience. Expect to pay $400 or more for
such a system. Best Buy and Sound Advice carry systems in this range.
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Sex Cue: Running Water
The combination of flickering candlelight with rippling water can create a
uniquely spiritual, relaxing mood for lovemaking. Putting a candle next to
rippling water also creates all sorts of interesting light reflections.
You can usually find elegant but inexpensive fountains for as little as
$20.00 in most malls.
These are just some of the more obvious sex cues you can set up in your
apartment. Of course, all of the sex cues in the world won't get you laid
if you lack any seductive
skills, they can give you the extra edge you
need.
Regards,
Derek Vitalio at Science of Seduction
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